{"id":1137,"date":"2022-08-29T15:08:36","date_gmt":"2022-08-29T07:08:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/?p=1137"},"modified":"2022-08-29T17:43:15","modified_gmt":"2022-08-29T09:43:15","slug":"%e8%8b%b1%e8%af%ad%e4%b9%a0%e8%af%ad%e8%b6%a3%e8%b0%88%e3%80%901%e3%80%91%e6%88%91%e7%9a%84%e9%87%8e%e8%9b%ae%e5%a5%b3%e5%8f%8b-volcano%ef%b9%a0sponge","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/2022\/08\/29\/%e8%8b%b1%e8%af%ad%e4%b9%a0%e8%af%ad%e8%b6%a3%e8%b0%88%e3%80%901%e3%80%91%e6%88%91%e7%9a%84%e9%87%8e%e8%9b%ae%e5%a5%b3%e5%8f%8b-volcano%ef%b9%a0sponge\/","title":{"rendered":"\u82f1\u8bed\u4e60\u8bed\u8da3\u8c08\u30101\u3011\u6211\u7684\u91ce\u86ee\u5973\u53cb Volcano\ufe60Sponge"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"200\" height=\"320\" src=\"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/20100410224421635.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1138\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/20100410224421635.jpg 200w, http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/20100410224421635-188x300.jpg 188w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 85vw, 200px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>\u672c\u680f\u76ee\u7531\u674e\u798f\u5175\u539f\u521b\u7f16\u5199\uff0cEyre\u7ed8\u56fe\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u548c\u4e00\u4e2a\u813e\u6c14\u706b\u7206\u7684\u4eba\u76f8\u5904\u5f88\u96be\uff0c\u7136\u800c\u4e0e\u5973\u670b\u53cb\u76f8\u5904\u53c8\u8c08\u4f55\u5bb9\u6613\u5462\uff1f\u53ef\u662f\u504f\u504f\u90a3\u4e2a\u813e\u6c14\u706b\u7206\u7684\u5973\u5b69\u5374\u6210\u4e3a\u4e86\u4f60\u7684\u5973\u53cb\uff0c\u4e5f\u8bb8\u4f60\u5e38\u8bf4\u7684\u4e00\u53e5\u8bdd\u8bf4\u5c31\u662f\u201cDon\u2019t yell at me! You are really a volcano!\u201d \u5927\u5bb6\u77e5\u9053\u8fd9\u53e5\u8bdd\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u610f\u601d\u5417\uff1f \u6211\u4eec\u77e5\u9053, volcano\u662f\u706b\u5c71\u7684\u610f\u601d\uff0c\u4f46\u57283\u7f8e\u8bed\u4e2d\uff0cvolcano\u5e38\u5e38\u662f\u6307\u813e\u6c14\u706b\u7206\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u4f60\u60f3\u60f3\uff0c\u50cf\u706b\u5c71\u4e00\u6837\u7684\u53d1\u6cc4\uff0c\u8fd9\u4eba\u8fd8\u4e0d\u706b\u7206\u5417\uff1fIf someone is called volcano, it means he has a bad temper, that is to say he is easy to become angry, even because of little cases.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u4e0b\u9762\u6211\u4eec\u6765\u770b\u4e2a\u4f8b\u53e5\uff0c\u52a0\u6df1\u4e00\u4e0b\u5370\u8c61\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting along with a volcano is not easy, but not impossible. We can\u2019t change people, but we can change how we treat them. So in the first place\uff0cclarify the situation and try to understand his or her viewpoint. Secondly, even if he or she is rude for you, respond politely.<br>(\u8bd1\u6587\uff1a\u4e0e\u4e00\u4e2a\u813e\u6c14\u706b\u7206\u7684\u4eba\u76f8\u5904\u4e0d\u5bb9\u6613\uff0c\u4f46\u5e76\u4e0d\u662f\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u80fd\u6539\u53d8\u522b\u4eba\uff0c\u4f46\u6211\u4eec\u80fd\u63a7\u5236\u6211\u4eec\u5982\u4f55\u5bf9\u5f85\u4ed6\u4eec\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\u9996\u5148\u8981\u5f04\u6e05\u695a\u60c5\u51b5\u5e76\u4e14\u5c3d\u91cf\u7684\u7406\u89e3\u4ed6\u3002\u5176\u6b21\u5373\u4f7f\u4ed6\u5bf9\u4f60\u5f88\u4e0d\u793c\u8c8c\uff0c\u4f60\u4e5f\u8981\u793c\u8c8c\u7684\u56de\u5e94\u3002)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u9664\u4e86\u813e\u6c14\u706b\u7206\u7684\u4eba\u6211\u4eec\u53ef\u4ee5\u4f7f\u7528volcano\u6765\u5f62\u5bb9\u5916\uff0c\u82f1\u6587\u4e2d\u7684sponge\uff08\u6d77\u7ef5\uff09\u53ef\u4ee5\u7528\u6765\u5f62\u5bb9\u53e6\u5916\u4e00\u7c7b\u4eba\u3002sponge\u539f\u610f\u662f\u6307\u6d77\u7ef5\uff0c\u5728\u7f8e\u56fd\u7684\u53e3\u8bed\u4e2d\uff0c\u5e38\u7528\u6765\u6307\u90a3\u4e9b\u6c38\u8fdc\u53ea\u62ff\u4e0d\u7ed9\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u4f60\u60f3\u60f3\uff0c\u6d77\u7ef5\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u52b2\u7684\u5438\u6c34\u5417\uff1f\u7528\u6765\u5f62\u5bb9\u90a3\u4e9b\u4e00\u6bdb\u4e0d\u62d4\u7684\u4eba\u4e0d\u662f\u5f88\u5f62\u8c61\u4e48\uff1fIf someone is called sponge, it means they are very closefisted. They always benefit from others but never return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u4e0b\u9762\u6211\u4eec\u6765\u770b\u4e00\u4e2a\u4f8b\u53e5\uff0c\u4e4b\u524d\u6211\u4eec\u5148\u770b\u4e00\u770bcope with\u8fd9\u4e2a\u8bcd\u7ec4\uff0c\u5b83\u4e0edeal with\u76f8\u540c\uff0c\u5e38\u76f8\u4e92\u4ee3\u66ff\uff0c\u6307\u201c\u5904\u7406\uff0c\u5bf9\u5f85\u201d\u7684\u610f\u601d\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How to cope with people who always take but never give back? To those sponges, the only thing we can do is to limit our help without feeling guilty.<br>\uff08\u8bd1\u6587\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u5bf9\u5f85\u90a3\u4e9b\u53ea\u63a5\u53d7\u800c\u4e0d\u7ed9\u4e88\u7684\u4eba\uff1f\u5bf9\u4e8e\u4ed6\u4eec\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u552f\u4e00\u80fd\u505a\u7684\u5c31\u662f\u5c3d\u91cf\u7684\u51cf\u5c11\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u5e2e\u52a9\u800c\u4e0d\u8981\u611f\u5230\u5185\u759a\u3002\uff09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u603b\u7ed3\u8bed\uff1a\u4eca\u5929\u6211\u4eec\u4e3b\u8981\u5b66\u4e86\u4e24\u4e2a\u8bcd\u7684\u7528\u6cd5\uff0c\u4e00\u4e2a\u662fvolcano\uff0c\u4e00\u4e2a\u662fsponge\uff0c\u90fd\u7528\u6765\u5f62\u5bb9\u4eba\uff0c\u4f46\u610f\u601d\u4e0d\u4e00\u6837\u3002volcano\u5e38\u7528\u6765\u6307\u201c\u813e\u6c14\u706b\u7206\u7684\u4eba\u201d\u3002\u8fd8\u6709\u4e00\u4e9b\u548cvolcano\u76f8\u5173\u7684\u4e60\u8bed\u6bd4\u8f83\u5bb9\u6613\u7406\u89e3\uff0c\u8fd9\u91cc\u7b80\u5355\u4ecb\u7ecd\u4e00\u4e0b\uff1a\u7b2c\u4e00\u4e2a\u662fdance on a volcano\uff0c\u4ece\u5b57\u9762\u4e0a\u770b\uff0c\u610f\u601d\u662f\u6307\u201c\u5728\u706b\u5c71\u4e0a\u8df3\u821e\u201d, \u610f\u6307\u201c\u9762\u5bf9\u5371\u9669\u8fd8\u60a0\u7136\u81ea\u4e50\u201d\uff1b\u7b2c\u4e8c\u4e2a\u662fsit on a volcano\uff0c\u610f\u601d\u662f\u201c\u5750\u5728\u706b\u5c71\u9876\u4e0a\u201d, \u6307\u5904\u5883\u5371\u9669\u3002Sponge \u7528\u6765\u5f62\u5bb9\u90a3\u4e9b\u53ea\u63a5\u53d7\u800c\u4e0d\u7ed9\u4e88\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5f53\u7136\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u7ffb\u8bd1\u6210\u5bc4\u751f\u866b\u672a\u5c1d\u4e0d\u53ef\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u523b\u8584\u4e86\u70b9\u3002<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u672c\u680f\u76ee\u7531\u674e\u798f\u5175\u539f\u521b\u7f16\u5199\uff0cEyre\u7ed8\u56fe\u3002 \u548c\u4e00\u4e2a\u813e\u6c14\u706b\u7206\u7684\u4eba\u76f8\u5904\u5f88\u96be\uff0c\u7136\u800c\u4e0e\u5973\u670b\u53cb\u76f8\u5904\u53c8\u8c08\u4f55\u5bb9\u6613\u5462\uff1f\u53ef\u662f\u504f\u504f\u90a3\u4e2a &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/2022\/08\/29\/%e8%8b%b1%e8%af%ad%e4%b9%a0%e8%af%ad%e8%b6%a3%e8%b0%88%e3%80%901%e3%80%91%e6%88%91%e7%9a%84%e9%87%8e%e8%9b%ae%e5%a5%b3%e5%8f%8b-volcano%ef%b9%a0sponge\/\" class=\"more-link\">\u7ee7\u7eed\u9605\u8bfb<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">\u201c\u82f1\u8bed\u4e60\u8bed\u8da3\u8c08\u30101\u3011\u6211\u7684\u91ce\u86ee\u5973\u53cb Volcano\ufe60Sponge\u201d<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[12],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1137"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1137"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1137\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1155,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1137\/revisions\/1155"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1137"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1137"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1137"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}