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You’d stop trying to butter me up.
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 Don\u2019t praise Westerners too highly when we compliment. Otherwise, they may think you\u2019re just buttering them up!
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We all enjoy receiving compliments. But sometimes compliments don\u2019t come across the way they\u2019re meant—especially between people from different cultures.
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I was just joking. But my joke came across as an insult and now Bob\u2019s mad at me!
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