{"id":330,"date":"2022-08-22T17:05:40","date_gmt":"2022-08-22T09:05:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/?p=330"},"modified":"2022-08-22T17:05:40","modified_gmt":"2022-08-22T09:05:40","slug":"friends%e8%8b%b1%e8%af%ad%e8%b5%8f%e6%9e%90%e3%80%9012%e3%80%91%e6%9c%89%e5%85%b6%e6%af%8d%e5%bf%85%e6%9c%89%e5%85%b6%e5%a5%b3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/2022\/08\/22\/friends%e8%8b%b1%e8%af%ad%e8%b5%8f%e6%9e%90%e3%80%9012%e3%80%91%e6%9c%89%e5%85%b6%e6%af%8d%e5%bf%85%e6%9c%89%e5%85%b6%e5%a5%b3\/","title":{"rendered":"Friends\u82f1\u8bed\u8d4f\u6790\u301012\u3011\u6709\u5176\u6bcd\u5fc5\u6709\u5176\u5973"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/friends_free_030303_12.mp3\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u672c\u680f\u76ee\u662f\u7531\u4e16\u535a\u82f1\u8bedStarry_Night\u539f\u521b\u7f16\u5199\uff01<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u7b2c\u5341\u4e8c\u7bc7<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Monica\u7684\u6bcd\u4eb2Mrs.Geller\u5411\u5973\u513f\u8c08\u8d77\u4e86\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6bcd\u4eb2\uff0c\u4e5f\u5c31\u662fMonica\u521a\u521a\u53bb\u4e16\u7684\u5916\u5a46\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mrs. Geller: Do you know what it&#8217;s like to grow up with someone who is critical of every single thing you say?<br>Monica: \u2026I can imagine.<br>Mrs. Geller: I&#8217;m telling you, it&#8217;s a wonder your mother turned out to be the positive, life-affirming person that she is.<br>Monica: That is a wonder. So tell me something, Mom. If you had to do it all over again, I mean, if she was here right now, would you tell her?<br>Mrs. Geller: Tell her what?<br>Monica: How she drove you crazy, picking on every little detail, like your hair\u2026 for example.<br>Mrs. Geller: I&#8217;m not sure I know what you&#8217;re getting at.<br>Monica: Do you think things would have been better if you&#8217;d just told her the truth?<br>Mrs. Geller: \u2026No. I think some things are better left unsaid. I think it&#8217;s nicer when people just get along.<br>Monica: Huh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u3010\u4e16\u535a\u89c6\u89d2\u3011<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mrs. Geller \u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5973\u513fMonica\u603b\u662f\u5f88\u6311\u5254\uff0c\u53ef\u5979\u5c45\u7136\u8fd8\u95eeMonica\uff1a\u201c\u4f60\u80fd\u4f53\u4f1a\u5728\u4f60\u6210\u957f\u8fc7\u7a0b\u4e2d\uff0c\u603b\u6709\u4e2a\u4eba\u4f1a\u6279\u8bc4\u4f60\u6240\u8bf4\u7684\u6bcf\u53e5\u8bdd\u662f\u5565\u6ecb\u5473\u5417\uff1f(Do you know what it&#8217;s like to grow up with someone who is critical of every single thing you say? ) \u8fd9\u91cc\u7684someone\u6307\u7684\u5c31\u662fMonica\u7684\u5916\u5a46\u3002 \u201c\u5bf9\u2026\u2026\u6301\u6279\u8bc4\u7684\u6001\u5ea6,\u201d \u6211\u4eec\u53ef\u4ee5\u7528 be critical of sth \u6765\u8868\u793a\uff0c\u6bd4\u5982\uff1aHe is critical of my work. critical \u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u76f4\u63a5\u7528\u6765\u4fee\u9970\u4eba\uff0c\u8b6c\u5982Mrs.Geller\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u8fd9\u6837\u5bf9Monica\u8bf4: \u201cYour grandmother was a very critical woman.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u771f\u662f\u6709\u5176\u6bcd\u5fc5\u6709\u5176\u5973( Like mother, like daughter), Mrs. Geller\u6bd4\u8d77\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6bcd\u4eb2\u6765\u53ef\u662f\u6709\u8fc7\u4e4b\u800c\u65e0\u4e0d\u53ca\uff0c\u6bcf\u6b21\u770b\u5230\u5973\u513fMonica\u90fd\u8981\u6311\u5979\u7684\u6bdb\u75c5\uff0c\u7528Monica\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u8bdd\u6765\u8bf4\u5c31\u662fpicking on every little detail (\u5439\u6bdb\u6c42\u75b5)\uff0cpick on \u5176\u5b9e\u5c31\u5f53\u76f8\u4e8e\u5148\u524d\u6240\u8bf4\u7684critical\u7684\u52a8\u8bcd\u5f62\u5f0fcriticize, \u5982\u679c\u8bf4criticize\u8fd8\u80fd\u88ab\u4eba\u63a5\u53d7\u7684\u8bdd\uff0c\u90a3pick on \u7edd\u5bf9\u662f\u8ba9\u4eba\u96be\u4ee5\u5fcd\u53d7\u7684\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u6279\u8bc4\u6709\u65f6\u8fd8\u5e26\u6709\u4e00\u5b9a\u7684\u5408\u7406\u6027\uff0c\u800cpick on\u5c31\u662f\u5728\u9e21\u86cb\u91cc\u6311\u9aa8\u5934\u4e86\u3002\u4e07\u4e00\u4f60\u5f88\u4e0d\u5e78\u78b0\u4e0a\u8fd9\u79cd\u4eba\uff0c\u4f60\u4e0d\u59a8\u543c\u4e0a\u4e00\u53e5\uff1aWhy do you always pick on me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Monica\u53ef\u6ca1\u6709\u8fd9\u4e48\u76f4\u63a5\uff0c\u5979\u65c1\u6572\u4fa7\u51fb\u5730\u95ee\u5979\u5988\u5988\uff1a\u201cSo tell me something, Mom. If you had to do it all over again, I mean, if she was here right now, would you tell her? (\u5988\u5988\uff0c\u544a\u8bc9\u6211\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u80fd\u91cd\u65b0\u6765\u8fc7\uff0c\u6211\u662f\u8bf4\u5982\u679c\u5916\u5a46\u5c31\u5728\u8fd9\u91cc\u7684\u8bdd\uff0c\u4f60\u4f1a\u544a\u8bc9\u5979\u5417\uff1f)\u201d all over again \u8fd9\u4e2a\u8bcd\u7ec4\u4e0d\u4ec5\u4ec5\u8868\u8fbeagain\u7684\u610f\u601d\uff0c\u8fd8\u5f3a\u8c03\u4ece\u5934\u5f00\u59cb\u91cd\u505a\u67d0\u4e8b\uff0c\u53c8\u6bd4\u5982\uff1aIf the teacher doesn\u2019t like your essay, you have to do it all over again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mrs. Geller\u5e94\u8be5\u4e0d\u4f1a\u4e0d\u660e\u767d\u5973\u513f\u7684\u610f\u601d\uff0c\u53ef\u5979\u5374\u8bf4\uff1a\u201cI&#8217;m not sure I know what you&#8217;re getting at.\u201d \u8fd9\u53e5\u8bdd\u771f\u4e0d\u9519\uff0c\u5f53\u522b\u4eba\u8bf4\u8bdd\u9690\u9690\u7ea6\u7ea6\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u5982\u6cd5\u6ce1\u5236\u5730\u7528\u8fd9\u53e5\u8bdd\u6765\u4e00\u63a2\u865a\u5b9e\u3002\u5230\u8fd9\u4e2a\u65f6\u5019Monica\u53ea\u80fd\u518d\u628a\u8bdd\u8bf4\u900f\u4e00\u70b9\uff1a \u201cDo you think things would have been better if you&#8217;d just told her the truth?\u201d, \u5979\u7684\u8a00\u4e0b\u4e4b\u610f\u5c31\u662f\u95ee: \u6211\u4e0d\u662f\u4e5f\u8be5\u5bf9\u4f60\u5b9e\u8bdd\u5b9e\u8bdd\uff0c\u597d\u8ba9\u4f60\u77e5\u9053\u6211\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u3002Monica\u6ee1\u6000\u5e0c\u671b\u5730\u7b49\u4e86\u8001\u534a\u5929\uff0c\u5374\u542c\u5230\u5979\u6bcd\u4eb2\u8bf4No, \u800c\u4e14\u8fd8\u5de7\u5999\u5730\u8868\u793a\u8bf4\uff1a \u201cI think some things are better left unsaid.\u201d \u8fd9\u5c31\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u6240\u8bf4\u7684\u6709\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\u53ef\u4ee5\u770b\u7a7f\u5374\u4e0d\u53ef\u4ee5\u8bf4\u7a7f\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u8bdd\u90fd\u8bf4\u5012\u8fd9\u4efd\u4e0a\u4e86\uff0c\u53ef\u601c\u7684Monica\u9664\u4e86\u4e07\u822c\u65e0\u5948\u5730 \u201c\u54c8\u201d \u4e00\u58f0\u5916\u8fd8\u80fd\u600e\u4e48\u6837\u5462\uff1f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u6700\u540e\u6211\u4eec\u518d\u6765\u770b\u4e00\u4e0b\u672c\u7bc7\u8bb2\u5230\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u5730\u9053\u8868\u8fbe\u6cd5\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>be critical of sth<br>pick on every little detail \/ pick on someone<br>all over again<br>what are you getting at?<br>some things are better left unsaid<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u672c\u680f\u76ee\u662f\u7531\u4e16\u535a\u82f1\u8bedStarry_Night\u539f\u521b\u7f16\u5199\uff01 \u7b2c\u5341\u4e8c\u7bc7 Monica\u7684\u6bcd\u4eb2Mrs.Geller\u5411\u5973\u513f\u8c08 &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/2022\/08\/22\/friends%e8%8b%b1%e8%af%ad%e8%b5%8f%e6%9e%90%e3%80%9012%e3%80%91%e6%9c%89%e5%85%b6%e6%af%8d%e5%bf%85%e6%9c%89%e5%85%b6%e5%a5%b3\/\" class=\"more-link\">\u7ee7\u7eed\u9605\u8bfb<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">\u201cFriends\u82f1\u8bed\u8d4f\u6790\u301012\u3011\u6709\u5176\u6bcd\u5fc5\u6709\u5176\u5973\u201d<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=330"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":332,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330\/revisions\/332"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.360abc.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}